Welcome to Igniters of the Heart!

You’ve imagined a thriving relationship, a relationship that grows and evolves with the abundance of time. You’ve dreamed of a relationship in which passion and play never die, always blooming like a rose. You’ve hoped for a relationship where discord is a gift, evolving into understanding and even more connection. You’ve wanted a relationship where intimacy and communication flow…where it is finally safe to be vulnerable and transparent, holding nothing back, a relationship where it is finally safe to be completely yourself.

Has this seemed an impossible dream? Have you tried and tried, but nothing lasted? Do you curse yourself as a terrible chooser of partners in relationships? Do you notice patterns of dysfunction in your relationships? And, why can’t you communicate? Why do you always end up in a fight? Why does sex always seem to get boring or even distasteful?

We are a thriving, passionate, playful married couple of 15 years. We use all the tools we teach to grow our relationship, to deepen our love and to use that love to fuel our lives and our work together.

What we have can be learned. No matter where you are, YOU CAN ALWAYS HAVE MORE!

Let us be your tour guides down the rapids of relationship. We will get you to calm and refreshing waters. Please enter....